The troubles of sexuality in women
Posted on August 19, 2008
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The sex painful: dyspareunia
The dyspareunia is defined by the appearance of severe pain during intercourse in women.
This pain occurring during sexual intercourse frequently looks to burns or cramps and can be located at the vagina or at the abdomen.
The pain can be stopped at the end of sexual intercourse, but it can also be pursued later.
During the primary dyspareunia, pain appears early sex.
During dyspareunia secondary pain appear after a period or reports were proceeding normally without pain. An infection is often the source of these dyspareunia.The causes of dyspareunia are numerous: the most frequent
Some fungal vaginal repeated
An infection of the cervix
A tear of the perineum
An episiotomy
Cyst (s) of the ovary
A endometriosis
An exceptionally malformation can sometimes cause dyspareunia
Some dyspareunia may be psychological origin
We must not let the pain caused by a move dyspareunia during sexual relations. Such pain can cause anguish to be penetrated. This causes a big fear involuntary contraction of muscles around the vagina aggravating the initial pain.
The vaginismus
The vaginismus prevent vaginal penetration: the penis can not enter the vagina without causing severe pain
The vaginismus causes contractions and a tightening of the muscles of the vagina causing pain at the penetration
The pain caused by vaginismus is changing as women, a mere annoyance to a burning sensation or tearing.
The primary vaginismus primaireLe vaginismus, the most frequently occurs at first sex
The pain apparrait also at the introduction of a regular stamp for example, or during a gynaecological examination with a speculum
A woman with vaginismus often feel shame, degout and guilt for her gender and “sex” in general.
The term phobia of coitus is sometimes referred to by some specialists.
The genitals showed no abnormality
The causes of vaginismus:
The ignorance of his body: the unfamiliar woman’s body and her sexual organs, including her vagina and the clitoris.
The women with vaginismus are caress ever
A rigorous education
The sexual abuse in childhood may explain vaginismus
A hymen too thick anomaly “mechanical” egaleement can cause pain during sex. This anomaly does not cause vaginismus.
Some couples have sex without penetration. This is an opportunity for a review of infertility that vaginismus of the partner is found. Do not wait to see.
The assistance of a professional, a doctor familiar with this problem, a psychotherapist or a sexologist, for example, is essential to try to solve this problem. The secondary vaginismus secondaireLe vaginismus comes after a period in which sex took place without causing pain.
Among possible causes:
A sexual abuse
A psychological shock
A partner too brutal
A sexually transmitted disease ….
How to treat vaginismus?
“In talking is already going well,” the first step is to talk with her doctor, who will decide to guide the woman to a specialist.
Consult a sexologist, psychologist, make a psychoanalysis or psychotherapy can help patients with vaginismus a psychological origin.
The discovery and acceptance of his body remain essential to help the patient achieve vaginismus.
What can make consulting a specialist?
It is above all necessary to succeed in understanding the reasons of numerous obstacles to the origin of painful events.
This approach can be extended several weeks or longer, will help to understand the reasons for its difficulties and to better live their sexuality.
Learn how her body, her vagina, clitoris …
Dedramatiser the sexual act
Deculpabiliser the situation and explain it concerns many other women
He learned the value of fondling
Learn not to consider the sex of the man as “foreign objects” and “dirty”
Learning to perform exercises muscle to understand the “functioning” of various parts of his body and gcc its erogenes areas.
The caresses are possible during the first week but sex are not recommended
A sex is often possible after a few weeks of consultation
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